Define success on your own terms. Unsuccessful is an illusory term, if you have a very committed ideas which means success to you, this would lead you unhappiness again ahead in life as one thing is assured nothing is guaranteed in life.
Most importantly about the things we want to make it happen, so why affix our feeling of self worth to things that probably might not happen, this dose not mean that we stop dreaming and working, it means that working with no guarantee of succeeding ahead things might get worst, we need to re-plan setting some failure-proof precautions ahead. When we don’t win a competition, we switched our mind and start concentrating within and outside of the attempt.
we need to find the value in failure and learn from defeats, if we don’t succeed on goal temporarily , we can set a two choices of thought, either we can think that we failed on the event or we can think that we learned something valuable from the failure, which we can apply in our next attempt which would create better chances of things going well ahead in life, Michael Jordan said once that “I can accept failure, everybody fails at something but he can’t accept not trying.” after lots of failure he finally succeeded, with only sole motif of never giving up.
There are many champions who were once a contender and never refused to give up after they failed. they kept utilizing their experiences,things can start being helpful, if we seek learning from it and with our intelligence make creative impact in our life
On the second part we get break down with our failures , knowing that the constancy of purpose is really important for life changing impacts, getting strucked doing very least important things and especially not utilizing our failures lessons, at the same time keep hope of things going well in future without working in a new approach is a futile.
There is no magical days in life which can change us instantly, we ourselves need to make a test and sort out, why did we fail, finding our our weakness and working on it can bring us lasting happiness and success.
life will makes us disappointed, regardless of our hard work, those moment things are not in our hand that is why successful people kept trying after their failure consistently, realizing that life isn’t not guaranteed, there can also be a cause of our failure with whom we are competing, may be we don’t work to our best capability and try competing with the experts of the competition who train fully for the competition.
People who are happy and work on their creative idea are much fortunate than other people, by sharing idea for bringing possibility.our reason for your failure could probably be that we missed doing something important which would have made us reaching our goal.